Last Writes: A Blog About Death and Grief
"Last Writes" is Good Grief’s blog dedicated to navigating death, grief, and everything in between — offering candid conversations, practical advice, and reflections to help people face loss with a little more clarity and a little less fear.
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What’s New at Good Grief: A Few Months of Building for Families in Loss
When someone dies, the paperwork doesn't wait for you to feel ready. Here's what six months of building Good Grief to help you look like — and what’s still on the works.
What’s Happening in Deathcare Right Now (And Why It Matters for Your Family)
The deathcare industry is shifting in some genuinely fascinating — and sometimes unsettling — ways. This Q1 2026 report covers the financial toll of grief, why estate settlement still feels like a second full-time job, how AI is showing up as deceased loved ones, and what new research tells us about what Americans actually want when it comes to end-of-life care.
What Happens to Your Pet When You Die? A Practical Guide to Rehoming After Loss
When someone dies, nobody tells you what to do with the puppy staring at your soul like you have the answers. This guide covers everything: what to do in the first 48 hours, how pets fit into the legal estate, how to find the right home, and what your options are when no one in the family can take the animal.
My Mom Wants to Donate Her Body to Science. Here’s What We Didn’t Know.
My mom has been on a low-key mission to find the least expensive, most dignified way to die. Somewhere between the fourth casket showroom and a $8,000 burial plot with a bay view she'd never use, she landed on body donation — and then immediately asked: "People will make fun of my body, won't they?" I didn't actually know the answer. So I called someone who does.
Executors Guide: When to Hire Help (And What Kind)
Nobody becomes an executor because they wanted a second job. But here you are. Before you spend the next six months figuring it out the hard way, here's the honest guide to knowing when you're in over your head — and what kind of help actually fixes it.
You're the executor. You live 800 miles away.
Nobody warns you that executor is a travel job. You stay for the funeral, go home — and then the calls keep coming. This guide covers the 5 things every out-of-town executor needs to know: what you can actually handle remotely, how to protect the property before you can get there, and how to make sure every flight you take gets reimbursed.
You Inherit the Liability Before You Inherit the Power
The moment a person dies, their assets become your problem. Their house, their car, their storage unit. You're the responsible party — but you can't do anything about those assets yet. You're waiting on death certificates, probate, a court to give you legal authority. That gap between when responsibility lands on you and when you gain the power to act is where executors get crushed.
Executor FAQ: Duties, Probate, and What You Need to Know
Being named executor can feel like a big job — and it is. This guide breaks down what executors actually do, how probate works, what expenses they handle, and how to manage the role without getting overwhelmed.
Do Executors Get Paid? Yes. Here's How Much, by State.
Executors are legally entitled to compensation in nearly every state. Here's what you can claim, how fees are calculated, and what most people don't know about getting paid for the hardest job you never applied for.
Cleaning Out a Parent's House After They Die
Every drawer is a decision. Every closet is a memory. A practical guide to sorting, selling, donating, and surviving the emotional weight of emptying a parent's home.
I Just Got Named Executor - Now What?
Someone you love just died. And now you've inherited 570 hours of admin across 12+ institutions that don't talk to each other. Here's what to do first, what can wait, and how to survive it.
How Good Grief Helps Texas Families in the First Month After a Death
When someone dies in Texas, families face an overwhelming wave of financial and administrative tasks, from filing for probate to closing accounts across 12+ institutions. Good Grief walks you through what to do in the critical first 30 days so nothing falls through the cracks.
Protecting the Estate - Best Privacy, Security & Fraud Prevention
When someone dies, their identity becomes a target. Scammers mine obituaries, open credit cards, and file tax returns in the deceased's name. Here's what to lock down — and when.
AI & Emerging Tech in the Death Space
The digital afterlife industry is valued at $125 billion. Millions of people are talking to AI recreations of the dead. This is happening whether we're ready or not — here's what you need to know.
Best Memorialization & Legacy Keepsake Tools
After the logistics comes the longing. Here are the most beautiful and meaningful ways to honor someone, from turning ashes into diamonds to letting future generations hear their voice.
Your First 30 Days - The Vendors Nobody Tells You About
Everyone talks about the funeral. Nobody talks about the locksmith, the notary, or what to do with three cats and a parrot. Here's the unsexy survival guide for the hardest month of your life.
The Home - Estate Cleanout, Sales & What to Do With All the Stuff
The average American home has over 300,000 items. When someone passes, every single one needs a decision. Here's how to break the cleanout into stages so it doesn't break you.
Best Probate & Legal Navigation Tools
Most people have never heard the word "probate" until they're in the middle of it. Here are the best tools to help executors navigate the legal maze, and know when to call a lawyer.
Best Account & Asset Discovery Tools
The average person has over 100 online accounts. When someone dies, finding them all is a detective mission. Here are the best tools, and which ones you can use right now, before it's too late.
Best End-of-Life Planning Tools (2026) | Which One Is Right for You?
Not all end-of-life planning tools are built for the same person. We break down the best options — from free to $499 — so you can pick the right one for where you are right now.