Last Writes: A Blog About Death and Grief
"Last Writes" is Good Grief’s blog dedicated to navigating death, grief, and everything in between — offering candid conversations, practical advice, and reflections to help people face loss with a little more clarity and a little less fear.
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Dead, Died, Dying: Why I Avoid Using the Phrase “Passed Away”.
“Passed away” may sound gentler, but it can distance us from the reality of death. This piece explores why language matters, how euphemisms shape fear and avoidance, and why saying “died” can be an act of honesty, care, and connection.
Why Estate Planning Matters Even More for LGBTQ+ Families
For LGBTQ+ families, dying without a will can mean the wrong people inherit and the right ones are left out. This guide explains how intestacy laws work, why chosen family isn’t protected, and how estate planning ensures your partner, kids, and community are legally recognized.
Letters Testamentary vs. Death Certificate: What’s the Difference?
Death certificates and letters testamentary serve very different roles after someone dies. This guide explains what each document does, when you need them, and why both are essential for managing an estate during probate.
A Complete Guide to Death Certificates
Death certificates are the key document that unlocks everything after someone dies—from probate and bank accounts to insurance claims and title transfers. This guide explains what they are, how to request certified copies, how many you’ll need, common delays, and how to stay organized.
Executor Tax Checklist: What Expenses Are Deductible After Death
Executors often miss valuable tax deductions after death. This checklist explains which expenses are deductible, where to claim them, and how Forms 1040 and 706 differ—so you don’t leave money on the table during probate.
Executor Duties: Asset Collection and Probate
One of the first and biggest executor duties is asset collection. This step-by-step guide walks through documents, financial accounts, property, taxes, and personal items—so nothing gets missed during probate.
What is the difference between an Administrator and Executor?
Executor and administrator roles sound similar, but they’re not the same. This guide explains who appoints each role, how probate works with or without a will, and what responsibilities come with managing an estate.
The End Well Conference 2025: Why Death Care's Biggest Gathering Signals a Policy Revolution
End Well Conference 2025 wasn’t just a gathering—it was a signal. From medical aid in dying to probate reform, policy is emerging as the next major force reshaping death care, grief support, and end-of-life access.
Digital Swedish Death Cleaning: How to Declutter Your Online Life
Digital clutter is the new “stuff.” This guide breaks down how to clean up your email, passwords, subscriptions, and photos using a Swedish Death Cleaning mindset—so your digital life stays organized and easy for loved ones to manage.
The Hidden Cost of “Stuff” After Someone Dies: Estate Clean-Out, Family Conflict, and What to Do About It.
After someone dies, grief isn’t just emotional—it’s physical. Closets, garages, and storage units overflow with memories and decisions. This guide unpacks the real cost of dealing with “stuff,” why families fight over it, and how to plan ahead so your loved ones don’t inherit a mess.
The Future of Deathcare: Key Takeaways from the Chicago Summit 2025
We spent the weekend at the Future of DeathCare Summit in Chicago—where funeral directors, cemetery operators, and tech innovators gathered to reimagine what deathcare can be. From fragmented digital systems to the growing demand for transparency, the event revealed an industry on the edge of transformation—and why collaboration, education, and trust will define what comes next.
What Happens If You Die Without a Will? State Intestacy Laws Explained
Dying without a will means your state gets to decide who inherits your stuff — not you. This guide breaks down how intestacy laws work, who inherits first, what property is affected, and why making your own plan is the smarter move.
Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Body Donation
Body donation is a powerful way to leave a legacy — advancing science, medicine, and even forensic research. This guide explains the history, donation process, eligibility, costs, and available programs worldwide so you can make an informed decision.
After The Funeral: 9 Post Death Administration Tasks to Keep in Mind
The funeral isn’t the finish line. This practical checklist covers nine post-death admin tasks— from ordering enough death certificates to handling taxes, DMV transfers, insurance, credit bureaus, subscriptions, utilities, and mail forwarding.
All That's Guaranteed: Death and Taxes
Handling taxes after death can feel overwhelming. This guide explains who’s responsible, which forms are required, and how to make sure final returns are filed correctly for a loved one’s estate.
Probate FAQ: What It Is, How It Works, and How to Avoid It
Probate can be confusing, costly, and time-consuming. This FAQ breaks down what probate is, when you need it, how long it takes, and ways to avoid it—so you know what to expect and how to plan ahead.
How Long Does Probate Take?
Probate length depends on the estate, state laws, and whether there’s a valid will. It can wrap up in weeks or drag on for years. Here’s what impacts the timeline, the steps involved, and strategies to make probate faster—or avoid it altogether.
What Makes a Will Invalid?
A will isn’t valid just because you wrote it down. From missing signatures and wrong witnesses to vague wording and DIY errors, these mistakes can make your will unenforceable. Here are 7 common ways a will can go wrong—and how to avoid them.
Wills vs Revocable “Living” Trusts
Should you choose a will or a revocable trust? This quick guide compares time, cost, flexibility, privacy, and tax benefits to help you understand which option may be the best fit for your needs.
How Often Should You Update Your Will
Learn how often to update your will and why it matters. Discover key life events that should trigger a review—and how to do it right.