Last Writes: A Blog About Death and Grief

"Last Writes" is Good Grief’s blog dedicated to navigating death, grief, and everything in between — offering candid conversations, practical advice, and reflections to help people face loss with a little more clarity and a little less fear.

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Emily Kyle Emily Kyle

Why Estate Planning Matters Even More for LGBTQ+ Families

For LGBTQ+ families, dying without a will can mean the wrong people inherit and the right ones are left out. This guide explains how intestacy laws work, why chosen family isn’t protected, and how estate planning ensures your partner, kids, and community are legally recognized.

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Emily Kyle Emily Kyle

A Complete Guide to Death Certificates

Death certificates are the key document that unlocks everything after someone dies—from probate and bank accounts to insurance claims and title transfers. This guide explains what they are, how to request certified copies, how many you’ll need, common delays, and how to stay organized.

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Emily Kyle Emily Kyle

Executor Duties: Asset Collection and Probate

One of the first and biggest executor duties is asset collection. This step-by-step guide walks through documents, financial accounts, property, taxes, and personal items—so nothing gets missed during probate.

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Carrie Costa Carrie Costa

The Future of Deathcare: Key Takeaways from the Chicago Summit 2025

We spent the weekend at the Future of DeathCare Summit in Chicago—where funeral directors, cemetery operators, and tech innovators gathered to reimagine what deathcare can be. From fragmented digital systems to the growing demand for transparency, the event revealed an industry on the edge of transformation—and why collaboration, education, and trust will define what comes next.

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Emily Kyle Emily Kyle

Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Body Donation

Body donation is a powerful way to leave a legacy — advancing science, medicine, and even forensic research. This guide explains the history, donation process, eligibility, costs, and available programs worldwide so you can make an informed decision.

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Emily Kyle Emily Kyle

All That's Guaranteed: Death and Taxes

Handling taxes after death can feel overwhelming. This guide explains who’s responsible, which forms are required, and how to make sure final returns are filed correctly for a loved one’s estate.

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Carrie Costa Carrie Costa

How Long Does Probate Take?

Probate length depends on the estate, state laws, and whether there’s a valid will. It can wrap up in weeks or drag on for years. Here’s what impacts the timeline, the steps involved, and strategies to make probate faster—or avoid it altogether.

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Carrie Costa Carrie Costa

What Makes a Will Invalid?

A will isn’t valid just because you wrote it down. From missing signatures and wrong witnesses to vague wording and DIY errors, these mistakes can make your will unenforceable. Here are 7 common ways a will can go wrong—and how to avoid them.

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Emily Kyle Emily Kyle

Wills vs Revocable “Living” Trusts

Should you choose a will or a revocable trust? This quick guide compares time, cost, flexibility, privacy, and tax benefits to help you understand which option may be the best fit for your needs.

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